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You can express your love to that
very
special someone in your life, first by being an example of how to
love
yourself.
I have compiled a list of some of my
favorite self-loving affirmations for you. You can apply them to yourself and
you can also share at least 100 reasons why I love you with all those you care
about.
It is important to love yourself first especially if you wish to express and
appropriately
share your love with
another, as you cannot give something that you do not have
to give. Wishing to give love to another when you are not loving yourself is
just as impossible as attempting to share your money with another if you do not
have any to begin with. The desire to give is certainly present in your heart
and mind, but the intent can not be fulfilled because you are financially broke.
It is important that you first heal any present or past
traumas within you.
First let me explain some
of the benefits of self-love. We allow many things to have an
affect on our
willingness to love ourselves;
others,
your
environment,
music, etc. Self-love provides you with inner joy, inner
peace, confidence,
trust and strength, to name a few. It is the very foundation of
what you need most. You cannot get love outside yourself, nor can you give love,
if you don’t first love yourself. This self-love encompasses all of your
existence, all of your personalities, your light, your dark, your physical,
emotional, mental, and spiritual bodies.
To love yourself is to completely accept, honor, value, cherish, and adore all
of you, all at once, as you are in this very moment. You do not have to change
yourself first in order to love and be loved. To do this is to be in alignment
with God, for God unconditionally loves you just the way you are. Click here for
a
transformational meditation.
Our
environment as well as the
media have been an extremely negative catalysts in the illusion that you are
not lovable in this very moment. Most of us have been conditioned to attain some
false perception of perfection. We are bombarded constantly with incorrect
information that we are not lovable. We imprint this lie within our cellular
body and it continues to send us negative statements through the subconscious
mind. We have a critical inner voice that is continuously sabotaging all of our
good intentions, especially our desires to enjoy a full loving relationship with
another.
We cycle through one painful experience after another, with continued outward
attempts to
outwardly control giving and getting love; only to find ourselves
alone
and in
pain once again.
The desire to be loved and to love begins with first knowing and fully
understanding what
love is.
Self-love is unconditional, it is a
mature emotional state of being in love, rather than being in fear; and therefore never depends on any condition
outside of ourselves. You
have an increased sense of empowerment for this reason. Self-love is always
available for you, and when you allow self-love, your life will flow with
remarkable grace and ease.
You have a choice to allow or resist loving yourself.. When you choose
to allow self-love, you will unravel the
mystery of peaceful loving joy and be
living in joy!
Your relationships as well as every other part of your life becomes abundantly joyful!
You can learn more about loving yourself from my first hand
experience of mastering self-love; where you will no longer be
dependent upon another to know you are loved.
For additional
support
in overcoming your less than loving attitude and behavior towards your self,
please review the
services provided here or you can
contact me directly.
You can begin your process of loving yourself by establishing a personal
private space in your home where you can sit quietly writing out or repeating aloud
at least once a day the
100 Reasons why I love you found in the list to the left.
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