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Give Love To Get Love
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It is true what is said about there being no difference between giving and receiving love. Love that is given out, is actually also being received because we feel the love we are giving. Remember how it
feels when you
love someone
dearly. You are feeling love, right? Well, this love is for both of you! While these are loving things to do for another, they are best if given within a healthy, loving relationship in which your other partner also gives freely. There have
been many
heartaches suffered,
in the present day world and certainly from the
past, when one partner gives
more than the other, on the pretense
that if they do so, they can
trust that they will hopefully receive the love, attention, and security
they
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This normally leads to the discovery over time that the
other partner was incapable of
providing these core essential needs, and in fact they are
emotionally dependent upon the giver to fill their own. You can’t “buy” love from another!
Both partners must have mastered
emotional maturity so that they do not continue to live in
an unhealthy cycle of
demanding love or anything else from the
other. This type of behavior is nothing more than an attempt at
controlling someone, because you feel and/or fear not
getting the love you so desperately desire. This is not the way
to obtain inner joy and
peace. |