Teaching Strategies, Methods To Develop Emotional Competence

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Emotional competence has been defined as having the skills to recognize, interpret, and respond constructively to emotions in yourself and others. Emotional competence is often lacking within us if we have been victims of emotional abuse and/or sexual abuse.

It is always beneficial to lovingly demonstrate your emotional feelings, but in an affecting healthy manner, rather than from a disturbed knee jerk reaction.

What this means is that we do not react in a fanatical way that drives us to take immediate action based on snap judgments. Nor do we resort to unresponsive and insensitive coldness.

These types of unhealthy emotional expressions can cause others to perceive us as excitable and hysterical; or completely uncaring; which in turn usually causes others to ignore us, leaving us with a feeling of abandonment, rather than gaining the true loving support we need. No one likes to be in the presence of someone whom is nervous, overwrought and unrestrained or too constrained.

Instead, we take time to examine our emotions as well as the situation at hand, and after consideration of such, we take affectionate action in a candid way that is expansive for our highest good and for the highest good of all involved; everyone loves to be around someone who is in inner harmony with themselves and feels peaceful.

Another words, stop, and meditate, feel what is really going on in and around us, before you react by gushing ahead in an overly dramatized manner. You need time to know whether you are responding to a current situation or reacting to some past trauma. This will allow you to be more acceptably communicative, which is a more tender illustrative way of sharing your feelings and is one of the healthier strategies, methods to develop emotional competence.

When you meditate, you increase awareness of the emotion you are feeling, why you may be feeling it, what the situation truly is (as opposed to what you believe or think it is), the opportunity that this emotion and situation is presenting you with, and how you can respond in a manner that is good for you and good for the other/s involved. You will lessen the pain and stress in your own life, as you recognize what is important to you, and the other/s, as well as your capacity to adequately create and hone the skill of win/win instead of a competition and success is achieved.

Another one of the strategies of emotional competence is, you will learn how to skillfully respond in a loving, kind, compassionate way to yourself and all others; which is courteous and qualifies as respectful of all life. This is also how you use emotion as positive fuel to get you to where you truly want to be, and thus, becoming a truly emotionally empowered person, whom will be adept at teaching strategies and methods of emotional competence to others. By choosing to respond in this way, you are no longer a slave to your emotions based on others opinions and/or actions; instead you are in a resourceful position of power to act over them. This is the strength and ability of whom you truly are and wish to be, and the example you wish to demonstrate for the world.

I can help you be this model for others, especially those stuck in abusive and or controlling behaviors and spread love and kindness through your influence, even in the face of fear and anger. You will benefit greatly as you will enjoy the gift of quickness of learning and the acceleration of healing, as I assist you in implementing and facilitating the teaching tools to harness all the strategies and methods for emotional competence; of which include self-love, self-respect, self-value, peace, harmony, fulfillment, and of course, inner joy expressed outwardly!