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You can help
heal yourself from the
fear of future betrayal and
abandonment by finding
your inner joy. You will also
regain emotional health and realize that the
love and attention you seek are within you.
In my first-hand experience, the best way to deal with betrayal and abandonment
is to first
seek
and accept help from one whom is considered trustworthy, whether it is in a
close friend,
counselor, or both.
This may be difficult for you at first because you are already feeling you have
been sold out and believing everyone and anyone else is up to some further
trickery. Beginning to
peacefully trust again will take some
effort on your part.
There are indeed
many who can be trusted and will be honestly supportive and loyal to your
sensitive nature.
It’s critical to have someone; or
better, many people, whom you can share your experience with,
and that will give you the help and comfort you need at this
time. It is never weak to get help, Never!
Remember that there is always a
time when others need your help, too, and most likely you don’t
view them as weak at all. See yourself just as you would a good
friend who has been betrayed and abandoned. You will have much
more compassion for yourself if you do.
Once you do accept and receive assistance, your
healing can begin and your inner joy will
return. These truthful people will be frank and
open and can
help you understand exactly what is going on with you during
this time and put everything into perspective for your benefit.
They will help you understand the falseness of your
critical
self-thoughts and beliefs.. When you have been betrayed and
abandoned, you will think and believe you are not good enough,
you will contemplate and own that you are to blame in some way.
You will punish yourself with the hypocrisy of "how could you
have allowed yourself to be so blind, wrong, naive, and stupid.
.You will be plagued with shame, and humiliation, etc. The
list goes on.
Your guide, mentor, friend, facilitator, and/or counselor will
help you comprehend the truth. You will see all of those
self-imposed incriminating statements are nothing more than ego
based treachery, with an intense agenda to keep you hood winked
and enslaved in the lack of freedom of trusting in yourself.
Your support team can and will guide you towards a healthy
joyful abandonment, as well as how to avoid regressing into the
trap of forsaking yourself. They will help you realize there are
many negative conditioned behaviors that can be altered with
your awareness of your choices, like the media, your
environment, and even the
tunes you choose to listen to. They will also help you with the
process of accepting and grieving for the relationship you
thought you had with the person you thought and believed was
different than they actually were. Once that process has been
completed, they will help you with the process of letting go and
forgiveness, especially for the betrayal and abandonment of
self.. These people will help you be lovingly patient in the
process, and you will emerge triumphant as a stronger, bigger,
more beautiful person than you ever thought possible in
yourself.
I am one of these people who can
help you, along with your angels, guides, and higher self.
Together we will heal you, and bring you to a place of joy,
love, and peace within yourself. A place of being loyal to
yourself'
Unto thy own self be true! This is the authenticity of self,
where you will never again be in a predicament of wondering
how to deal with betrayal and abandonment! |
